We all want peace and yet sometimes we don't want to do the work to attain this peace.....I for one do not always want to eat my peas just because they are good for me!! Eating my peas can look like exercising, meditating, practicing patience with self and others. Sigh....I even will binge on bad TV at times just to spite the ever wise nose on the face of my reality. So what to do when all we want to do is dig into a pint of ice cream with a spoon after eating that greasy piece of pizza. Let the moment be what it is and not judge. Let the situation and/or person be what they are and let go of being some kind of perfect drone!! We are human and as such we are built to withstand mistakes and messy situations. We will eat healthy again, we will endeavor to meditate everyday without fail, we will have patience just when we need it most and we will survive the apparent lack of perfection that stares us in the face. In fact just when we think we could not be more of a failure something happens and we move into that super human capacity and move mountains for someone or say the right thing to help them in their moment of need. We can run the marathon of life just by being available to everything that life gives us.....the happy, the sad, the not so happy and the not so sad. We just need to pace ourselves and let up a little on the "I gotta to this one thing perfect then I will let up on myself....." nope we need to let up on ourselves now, in this very moment.....give ourselves a break from the perfection notion. Feel your way through the resistance of wanting to appear like we have it all together and are totally organized. Like this is what will make us worth the love and attention because "we have earned it". Remember the ugly duckling.....he was in the wrong family, a duck family, who all really loved him but to others he was the ugly one, the one who wasn't quite right to look at. Where do we judge ourselves as the ugly person that we do not want to see? What judgement do we hold ourselves to as people and feel we are not fit enough, not attractive enough, not kind enough, not understanding enough, not enough, not enough.......enough already!! You and I are enough!! WE are attractive enough in our own unique way, smart enough, kind enough, even worthy of love. We are each one of us a beautiful aspect of the Divine in human form. So stop beating yourself up about the one time you didn't have it all together and act perfectly. Relax that ever watchful eye of judgement that it not roam over your life and destroy it and the beauty that surrounds it. Everyone has their moments of glory and amazing timing and everyone has moments of anger and spite. Apologize to yourself for being the harsh critic, apologize to others for hurting them. We are all doing our best and must acknowledge this to ourselves and recognize this in others. We all want love and attention regardless if we have earned it or not and frankly the Powers that be love us no matter what and always will so why don't we take their example and bring a more accepting and appreciative attitude to this moment with ourselves and everyone who is in our lives. Patience and love to all of you no matter what moment you are in.....difficult or exhilarating!! Love yourselves through it all......
My mission is to help people become more in tune with their own Soul Spirit plus Spirit Teachers and Angelic Guides resulting in clarity and awareness of the Divine that lives within!